Former First Lady Michelle Obama has faced online scrutiny after sharing insights into her husband’s eating habits on her podcast “IMO.” The 61-year-old hosts the show alongside her brother Craig Robinson, and the remarks were made during an interview with psychoanalyst Dr. Orna Guralnik.
The episode featured Dr. Guralnik, recognized for her work on the series “Couples Therapy,” exploring the dynamics of long-term relationships. The discussion included topics such as transitioning to parenthood, handling jealousy, and sustaining healthy partnerships over time.
During a segment on communication in relationships, Obama shared an experience familiar to many married couples. The conversation addressed moments when partners inquire about each other’s thoughts, leading to Obama’s candid comment.
“Because how many times does somebody ask, ‘What are you thinking about?’ And you’re like, ‘Well, let me make up a thing,'” Obama explained during the episode. “Because I don’t actually want to tell you what I was thinking about, which is like, ‘The way you’re chewing makes me want to smack you upside the head.'”
The former attorney delivered her remarks humorously, elaborating on a shared family annoyance. “The girls and I are very irritated with the way Barack chews,” she added, referring to daughters Malia and Sasha.
While some listeners appreciated Obama’s humor and authenticity, others viewed the comments critically. Social media platforms, particularly Instagram, became arenas for debate on whether the former First Lady frequently complains about her marriage to the 44th president.
This reaction occurs amid ongoing speculation about the Obamas’ relationship, especially after Michelle’s absence from some public events following Donald Trump’s re-election. Despite the couple’s 32-year marriage and efforts to dismiss divorce rumors, skepticism persists among some critics.
Social media users expressed various frustrations with Obama’s candid discussion of her marriage. “She complains about him constantly,” one Instagram user wrote. “It’s getting old.”
Further criticisms suggested deeper marital issues, despite the couple’s public denials of separation. “I’ve actually never heard her say one nice thing about him,” another user commented. “She sounds miserable.”
Some labeled the mother of two as “privileged and ungrateful,” while others claimed she “complains about everything, not just him.”
The situation underscores the challenges public figures face in balancing authenticity with public expectations. Obama’s attempt to depict a realistic view of long-term marriage, including minor annoyances, has received mixed reactions from an audience divided between those valuing her honesty and those favoring a polished image.
The Obamas have consistently affirmed the strength of their marriage, despite occasional public discussions of the typical challenges in long-term relationships. Married since 1992, they have navigated the intense scrutiny of eight years in the White House.
Whether this recent criticism will affect how Obama discusses her personal life in future podcast episodes remains uncertain. The debate continues online about the balance between relatable honesty and perceived excessive complaints regarding one of America’s most prominent marriages.

